For children, validation from adults is like a cookie for their little baby souls. Letting them know that you like it when they ask questions and that curiosity is a good quality is a good way to nurture curiosity in the future. Curiosity: It apparently kills cats, but it's great for kids.

This is especially good for the difficult, complex, "Very Special Episode of Blossom" type questions they'll be asking, because it will give you the context to know how best to answer, what they're learning about, how, and from whom. This will also give you the opportunity to begin to gauge how much they know about a given subject. Sneaky you, simultaneously engaging and encouraging your child all while reigning as much control over the situation as possible.

This will continue to give you, the adult, context with which to provide the best answer. This will also give your child the opportunity to apply (and develop) some critical and/or creative thinking skills. It also gives them a mini introduction to the scientific method by prompting them to come up with a hypothesis. And/plus/also, hearing kids come up with ideas with little background information can be profoundly entertaining.

My personal rule of thumb about answering my kids' questions is that I try to answer as honestly and fully as I can in one minute or less. That's not to say the ensuing conversation or follow-up questions should fall in that time-frame. Hopefully they won't! But you also don't want to launch right into a master's class on the subject before you provide a simple introduction, right? Because you will almost certainly either confuse them or bore the curiosity right out of them. I think of answering the Big Important Questions, initially, as providing a book jacket version of the subject that will encourage them to take a deeper look.

When deciding whether certain information is age appropriate for a child, think about it in terms of this: Is this going to be difficult for them to understand (intellectually, socially, or emotionally) or is this simply going to be difficult for me to explain? If the latter, then what about it is difficult? Is it a difficult concept to articulate or am I simply uncomfortable? If the former, can I work through that; and if the latter, how can I overcome my discomfort? Even before they can speak, children can understand more than we give them credit for a lot of the time. That trend continues as they age. So don't be afraid to present your child with challenging material. You'll be surprised how often they will rise to meet it.

This is incredibly difficult for some people to do. Sometimes it's a matter of pride ("I'm the parent! And parents know everything!"), embarrassment ("I should totally know this and I'm clueless."), or feeling that you can't not answer so you just come up with something on the fly that might not be completely accurate. But the beauty of being a parent is that you have regular and privileged access to your children, so even if you don't know something in the moment it's totally fine because you're going to have plenty of opportunities to get back to them (although good luck telling a little kid that you'll "get back to them" aka "not give them the information they want right at the exact moment they want it").

We basically live in the future now, guys. We carry what would once have been considered super computers around in our damn pockets. A literal world of information is at our fingertips. Use it!

Libraries: They're the Google you can visit! The added benefit of using the library for research purposes is that you can pop on over to the children's section and pick up books that speak to whatever you've been talking about. This is how we go beyond simply answering questions and move onto "developing interests."

Don't let the conversation die after your first foray into it. Connect it to what you read and watch together, or to something that's going on in your child's life. You don't have to shoe-horn it into every possible interaction with your child, but keep an eye out for opportunities to organically remind your child of previous conversations as a way to introduce new subjects or points of view. You will likely have myriad opportunities to do this with the Big Scary Questions in particular. Speaking of Big Scary Questions...

Because questions are questions and the truth is the truth. That's all. The beauty of being a parent is that you not only give your child the information they need to navigate their world, you also give them their compass.