Even if your kids don’t have food allergies, chances are you’re hearing more and more about them and their afflictions. As our children grow and become friends with other children, it's important that we take not of potential dangers, even if our children aren't directly affected. That's why there are things parents of kids with food allergies want you to know; because we're all in this together, so-to-speak, and as our children start to go out into the world, we become acutely aware that when we can't watch our children, other people can (and are.)
Children with severe food allergies have reached a record high number in our country, and the reasons why are not entirely clear. As a parent of one of these children, I have become an expert on reading food labels and deciphering restaurant menus. However, I can’t expect everyone to operate at that level of awareness, especially if they don't experience these fears and struggles first hand and on a daily basis. Before having my son, who is allergic to peanuts, our family breezed through restaurant meals, birthday parties and holiday feasts without a care in the world (aside from the tendency to overeat). Now, we pre-plan where we dine out, assess public areas for peanut contamination and conduct rigorous interviews prior to accepting playdates. It’s necessary, it's our new "normal" and it's just the way it is.
While it can be easy to assume parents of kids with allergies are overprotective and maybe even a little bitchy, I think we’re just extremely misunderstood. We will do everything in our power to keep our children safe, and sometimes that comes across as a little "much." Trust me, we don’t do it to be mean; we do it because we all benefit from knowing more about the threat of certain foods to certain kids and, in the end, we know that we can't always be there and, at times, require help. So, with that being said, here are a few things parents of kids with allergies want you to know: