If you thought relationships were hard before kids, add one or two tots into the mix and you'll look back on your "pre-kid days" as the easy times. Don't get me wrong, having children is amazing can be one of the most fulfilling and empowering things you can do. But parenting with someone else isn't easy. In fact, sometimes it's downright hard. If you're considering having children (or even if you already do) there are certain co-parenting red flags to watch out for that will make parenting more stressful than it needs to be.
My husband and I have been navigating the ups and downs of parenthood for a little over two years now and while the "terrible twos" push us to our limits everyday, sometimes we are less than supportive as co-parents. I'm not saying that when things get hard that it's OK to up and leave, but if you notice any of these signs in your partner, before or after kids, it may be time to sit down and have a talk with them.
Parenting is no small task, so making sure you're doing it with someone who builds you up and encourages you as a mom is one of the most crucial decisions you can make.