Life
One of the cool things about having a kid is sharing them with those you love. I'm, fortunately, very close to my parents and always have been. But becoming a grandpa changed my father — not in any big, substantial way, but in a few subtle, small ways — and I have to admit that I've never been closer to him than I am now that I have children. Being a grandpa agrees with him. And, of course, he's not the only dad to have his life changed by the presence of a grandchild.
Romper asked other moms to share the sweet ways their fathers changed after becoming grandpas and, well, if you don't have tissues nearby, go ahead and grab some. I'll wait.
Case in point: a few days ago, my dad asked if he could buy my son, in his words, a "seven-million-piece Lego set." He described how cool it was, and how my kid could make anything he wanted. When I thanked him for the sweet gesture, but said that the last thing my 8-year-old kid needed was more Legos, I swear I could hear him pout through the phone. "You're no fun!" he replied.
Um, where's my dad? Because this man ain't him. My father was Mr. "No." Mr. "Ask Santa." Mr. "That's What Your Allowance Is For, But Really You Should Put All Your Money Into A Savings Account For Retirement And Yes I Know You're Only 7 But It's Never Too Early To Start." But as time and the elements can smooth even craggy mountains, so too can becoming a grandfather change dads. Need more proof? Read on.
Allison
"My dad has always been very hands-on as he was a single dad from the time I was 13. But with grandchildren it is on a whole new level. For example, I needed him to take my daughter to dance class for a few weeks when our youngest was born. Well, he ran with that responsibility and that has become 'his thing' to do with his granddaughter. Two years later and he still takes her most weeks. Not only that, he participates in the father-daughter dance with her each year in the recital, too!"
Tara
"My [step-dad] was always a great dad, but he was an extraordinary grandpa. I remember one moment when my mom took my oldest shopping for back-to-school clothes one time with me. She texted him a picture of him riding one of those little 75 cent rides at the mall. And he immediately texted back, 'Damn, I love that kid.' My mom and I teared up because it was just an organic response that was so him. He passed away three years ago and that moment is precious to me."
Rachel
"My dad is a hulking big Southern ex-football player who secretly has Tim Gunn's fashion sense, and while he loves having a grandson to do sporty boy stuff with, he gets so much enjoyment out of buying cute little shoes for my 2-year- old daughter, and brushing and styling her hair. As the father of two daughters, he always liked taking us clothes shopping, but he's at a whole new level as a grandpa."
Samantha
"I’m an only child and I was and still am a huge daddy’s girl... when I was first pregnant with my first child, a boy, my dad was smitten. He took pics of me saying 'my baby is having a baby!' From the minute my son was born my dad was changed.
I grew up with a very loving dad, but also one who yelled a lot. However, since my son was born , he has never raised his voice and my son is his world. Three years later I had my daughter, who has him wrapped around her finger. He literally would do anything for them. He recently had his second knee replacement and is in a lot of pain but told me 'if I was dying I would crawl to their soccer game or dance class'... and it’s true. He would do anything for them. They do no wrong in his eyes. It makes me so happy to know my kids are so so loved."
Tia
"My step-dad married my mom when I was 5. They were unable to have children together. When my first daughter was born it was his first real experience with a newborn. When he held her he just kept saying, 'This is so f*cking cool!' I don't know that his personality has changed much, but watching all the firsts for him has been really fun."
Jane
"The dad I remember growing up was caring, but also an incredibly serious man. As a grandpa, he is such a huge goofball that it was shocking to me at first. He will play dress up, let the kids ride on his back like he's a horse, do funny voices... It's the most bizarre and amazing thing I've witnessed."
Erin
"My dad talks baby talk now. No one else in our family does. But with grandbabies he turned into mush. It's weird."
Kimmie
"My dad was pretty gruff growing up. When I got pregnant, he downloaded The Bump app so he would know what size fruit the baby was each week. Once, he left me a voicemail asking how his 'grandraspberry' was doing."
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