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As if breastfeeding isn't exhausting enough on its own, try adding in some of the antiquated, misinformed, and downright entertaining old wives' tales about breastfeeding that are hilariously untrue. Despite their level of hilarity, it's a little bit crazy that so many people still take these myths seriously. Whether you've heard them from a well-meaning bystander, your mother-in-law, or even, god forbid, a medical professional, all of these myths are as popular as they are easy to disprove.
As a breastfeeding mom, the last thing you need is something in the form of an old wives' tale getting in the way of your confidence about your milk supply or your abilities to provide for your child the way nature intended. These myths aren't just silly and harmless. In fact, they could have a real impact in the way you view yourself as a mother, your body, and your ability to nurse your baby.
So, without further ado, I give you some of the most ridiculous breastfeeding myths out there. But more than that, I give you the information to debunk them and reclaim your confidence about breastfeeding — regardless of your hair color or breast size. (Sound ridiculous? Just keep reading).
Myth #7: Being Angry Or Stressed Makes Sour Milk
Although stress and anger are not fun to deal with, they are a normal part of life and are sometimes unavoidable. Luckily, experiencing stress or anger does not spoil your breast milk or give it a sour flavor. “Stress while breastfeeding can reduce supply and reduce the IgA immunoglobulin (antibodies passed from mother to baby), but there is no evidence that says stress makes breast milk taste sour,” Segrave-Daly tells Romper.
Myth #8: Extended Breastfeeding Spoils Children
This is absolutely untrue. The length of time a mother nurses for is a completely personal choice, and as Hamann puts it, “You can’t spoil a baby/child with the proper nutrition that is tailored to their needs at that moment.”
Hafken tells Romper how the weaning process can happen naturally, and what she sees as the actual behavior that can lead to “spoiling” a child. “Caving in to inappropriate demands due to whining or tantrums can spoil children. When your goal is to breastfeed until your children outgrow the need, the key concept here is that your children have needs that are being met by a form of nutrition and comfort that they are used to,” Hafken says. “There is no point at which breast milk loses nutritional value. The weaning process can happen naturally as children’s diet diversifies and they are encouraged to develop a variety of ways of seeking comfort.”
Myth #9: You Need To "Toughen Up" Your Nipples Before Nursing
Please don't. “Nipple skin does not ‘toughen' or form calluses. It is similar to lip tissue in that it works best when kept supple by sufficient moisture and general hydration, and injuries such as cracks are prevented or treated quickly,” Hafken says.
Breastfeeding does tend to become less painful for the nipples over time, and Hafken says this is due to several reasons, neither of which is the ‘toughening up’ of nipples before nursing. “In a first-time mother, connective tissue inside the nipple has never been stretched out to that extent, and it takes time for elasticity to develop,” Hafken says. “Nipples become especially sensitive during pregnancy and postpartum due to hormonal changes that regulate over time, and as the baby’s mouth grows and both of you master a comfortable latch, you should find that nipple pain recedes.”
Myth #10: Breastfeeding Can Cause Dental Problems
The reason this myth even exists has to do with the high sugar content of breast milk, but proper dental care should quell any issues. “Breast milk is high in sugar to fuel our big brains (in fact, it is the sweetest of all mammalian milks). Any sugary substance can cause cavities if allowed to linger around teeth, and anyone who has seen their nursing baby pop off and give a milky smile before going back to feeding can see that milk can pool around the teeth,” Hafken says. “Of course this is more a risk of any infant feeding method, not specifically breastfeeding, so dentists recommend that babies’ gums be wiped and teeth be brushed after drinking breast milk or formula.”
The opposite of this myth may actually be true, as there is some evidence that breastfeeding can actually improve dental health over time. “With regard to breastfeeding specifically, there is evidence that during the first year of life, babies who were breastfed longer had a lower incidence of tooth decay than babies breastfed for a shorter time period, but after the first year the research is less clear,” Hafken says.
Myth #11: Drink Plenty Of Water To Maintain Supply
“Milk supply is not affected by the amount of water you drink,” Segrave-Daly tells Romper. “Increasing milk supply depends on biological factors like sufficient glandular tissue, normal levels of several hormones (prolactin for example), and other health factors (BMI, age, PCOS, and thyroid disease, just to name a few), and frequent and thorough milk removal.”
Segrave-Daly does note however that staying hydrated is still important for moms regardless of whether or not it impacts your milk supply. “Do try to stay hydrated though, because your needs are important too,” she says.
This post was originally published on Sept. 13, 2016. It was updated on Aug. 20, 2019. Additional reporting by Ashley Jones.
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