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Why People Don't Like You, Based On Your Sign

by Ni'Kesia Pannell

Has there ever been a time when you've met someone new and told you friend afterwards, "there's just something about them that I don't like"? I have, and on multiple occasions. My friends usually tell me that I'm being mean or petty when this happens, but when I feel something isn't right, I have to go with my gut. And it turns out there are different reasons why people may not like you, based on your astrological sign, which makes me feel better about my first judgements.

I know not everyone gets along, which why I never feel bad about saying that I'm not too fond of a certain person when I meet them. And though I haven't always been a big believer in astrology, I've learned that they really can be a determining factor in my friendships. For example, Scorpios — who are demanding and controlling — have never been good friends of mine because it's very difficult for me to mesh with people of that nature. Virgos on the other hand, don't bother me at all.

Not sure why you just can't get along with that one particular person at the office? These traits for each sign can help explain why.

Aries (March 21 to April 19)

Sun Gazing noted that the more annoying traits found in Aries are argumentative and mean. Instead of always seeing things as an argument, perhaps you should take time to listen and see the other side of things if this is your sign.

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)

When it comes to those falling within the Taurus sign, stubbornness tends to be a trait that could possibly keep others away from you, according to Higher Perspective. Don't become so stubborn that you can't see the error in your ways or see things from the other perspective.

Gemini (May 21 to June 20)

Astrology Zodiac Signs noted that Geminis are both inconsistent and indecisive, which is something that can make people not want to be around. Try finding ways to stick to the decisions you make and not second guessing them.

Cancer (June 21 to July 22)

Not sure why people aren't excited to be around you if you're a Cancer? Your sensitivity and insecurity could be the reason why, Sun Gazing noted. Find a few ways to build your confidence — like doing something new — and work on not taking things too personal.

Leo (July 23 to Aug. 22)

Leos have a tendency to be extremely self-centered, making it difficult to want to be around them, according to Higher Perspectives. Instead of seeking praise and attention, try figuring out what is causing you to need these.

Virgo (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22)

According to Astrology Zodiac Signs, Virgos tends to be overly critical of themselves and of others causing people to not want to befriend them. A good way to remedy this would be to show compassion to yourself first to be able to show it to others, as The Huffington Post noted.

Libra (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22)

According to Sun Gazing, Libras are people pleasers. Although making people happy can be something that well, makes them happy, it can also be something that pushes them away, too. Being a people pleaser can cause you to seem disloyal and like a follower.

Scorpio (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21)

Out of all of the signs, Scorpios are the most demanding and controlling, Higher Perspectives noted. Try taking a chill pill and letting things flow.

Sagittarius (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21)

Know a Sagittarius and not sure why you don't like them very much? It could be because of their tendency to be very impatient, Astrology Zodiac Signs suggested. If this happens to be you, try asking yourself how patient you would like others to be with you when having to be patient for them.

Capricorn (Dec. 22 to Jan. 19)

According to Sun Gazing, Capricorns can be very full of themselves, which can push others away from them. It may take some time before Capricorns change, but maybe pointing out their obsession with their own self could help them see their issues.

Aquarius (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18)

The Aquarius sign may seem peaceful at first, but once you make them upset, Higher Perspectives noted that they're quick to give you the cold shoulder. Instead of pushing others away when they upset you, try being more open with your thoughts.

Pisces (Feb. 19 to March 20)

According to Astrology Zodiac Signs, the Pisces can be fearful and overly trusting, prompting others to not like them. Though they can be very friendly, their fear and inability to see people's true colors can often make them seem very weak.