One of the burdens of pregnancy is having to reevaluate what you eat, drink, and put on your skin. This lovely set from Hatch includes a face oil and face serum that are both fully safe to use when expecting. After birth and maybe even nursing, they can go back to their powerful go-to favorites that include ingredients that dermatologists recommended staying away from during pregnancy (like retinol and salicylic acid), but for now, help them stick to their skin care routine that they love by supplying them with nice products they don’t have to think twice about using.

There’s nothing wrong with a budget candle, but there’s nothing quite like a mid-to-extra-fancy candle. This candle is by far not as expensive as they come, but the brand, Anecdote Candles, comes up with the best names and descriptions that are a gift in itself, and their candles truly smell as they’re described. The scents run the gamut — you’ll truly find something for everyone here. But since she can’t have any Champagne on Valentine’s Day if she’s expecting, the next best thing just might their Bottomless Mimosa candle that smells like citrus, bergamot, and a hint of fresh greens.

This is not your average slipper. The beauty of Rothy’s shoes is that they’re machine washable — so convenient, we know — and really cute. These slippers are best suited for indoor use, but they do have a hard sole so they can stand to be worn outdoors as well. The fuzzy sherpa lining that will keep your toes nice and warm even with the absence of socks, and the eco-conscious recipient would be happy to know that four plastic bottles intended for the ocean were sacrificed to make these shoes.

A picture isn’t one of those gifts that are impressive because they’re fancy — they’re loved and appreciated because they’re thoughtful. As far as Valentine’s Day gifts go, you can knock it out of the park by grabbing a simple photo holder (or even an inexpensive frame), and pairing it with a meaningful photograph, print, or a romantic or uplifting quote.

An extra oversized cardigan is the gift — for Valentine’s Day or any occasion, really — that your pregnant partner did not know they would absolutely fall in love with. This lightweight cardigan from beloved maternity brand Storq is super soft and warm (it’s knit from a blend of alpaca, nylon, and wool fibers), and truly will be probably the last “maternity” or “nursing” item to get pitched — if ever. XL cardigans never go out of style, after all. And don’t let the dry-clean-only label deter you as the alpaca helps it naturally wick away moisture and odors. So yea, if the baby spits up on it, it’ll probably be easier to clean than you think.

This book is chock full of eye popping facts about the animal kingdom, noting the many species of animals that take, shall we say, less than loving care of their young. If she likes to laugh but is feeling the pressure of being the perfect mom already, this book might both make her smile and teach her something, too. It’s also a mere 64 pages, and makes a great addition to your collection of coffee table books or bathroom reads.

When she’s already lugging a baby, she probably doesn’t want to be lugging around a big purse too. These comfortable and cute little bags from PACKPACK can sit on her hip and help her keep her wallet, phone, and keys with her easily wherever she goes. It has the functionality of a fanny pack, but with a little bit more of an elevated look. If pink isn’t her color, the product comes in silver and a floral pattern as well.

Since a bottle of bubbly isn’t an ideal Valentine’s gift for a pregnant wife, consider a mocktail gift instead. If she’s dealing with acid reflux, as many pregnant people are, anything that’s made with a citrus base isn’t likely to be great. But pregnant people are often encouraged to have ginger to sooth their stomach, and this ginger whiskey mocktail kit might help her feel like she’s celebrating even though she can’t partake in the real drink.

Sure, you probably already have access to a few streaming services, but now is a good time to splurge for a premium app — preferably one that’s ad-free. As she gets further into pregnancy, she’s going to want to lounge and watch TV more and more. Then, once the baby comes, it’ll be nice to have something to entertain her while she’s feeding the baby, pumping, or even recovering from childbirth. Consider investing in a monthly ad-free subscription for HBO Max, Peacock Premium Plus, Hulu, or Hallmark Movies Now (this one is an especially good Valentine’s gift for a pregnant wife who loves a good cheesy love story).

There’s nothing that can soothe an aching body like a hot bath, and a bath is a whole lot more relaxing (and entertaining) with a good bath bomb. To really play up the romance of Valentine’s Day, consider getting her this one which is appropriately called “Sex Bomb.” It’s made with a mix of jasmine, ylang ylang oil, and clary sage oil that relaxes, soothes, and serves as a slight aphrodisiac. If she’s not in the mood for that kind of romance, no problem, there are plenty of other great bombs that can help her relax, moisturize, or just enjoy a show of colors and glitter while she soaks.

Pregnancy can be painful: for the feet, for the legs, and for the back, and a massage can help ease some of those tense muscles and make this unpleasant part of pregnancy a little more bearable. This massage gun comes with different settings and different heads to get the relief just right. Just be sure to check with her doctor about any restrictions on where the massage gun can be safely used. Part of the present can be regular massages up until the baby comes. (And after!)

This soft and silky Natori Enchanted Garden PJ set is a bit of splurge — but the gorgeous floral pattern, cute fit, and silky fabric make it worth it. The pajamas are made of 97% polyester and 3% spandex, so they have some give to them that will accommodate the growing bump. Best of all, many of the patterns are size inclusive so they can fit a whole variety of body sizes. At 25" long from center back with 26" inseam, they’ll fall as a cute capri length on most wearers. Despite being pretty schmancy, they’re machine washable (in cold water).

The winter months can quickly dry out your skin, but when you’re pregnant it’s even worse. Even on the most humid day, as your belly stretches, it can quickly dry out and get itchy, so the extra dry winter can be brutal. The Mother Mother Balm Bar is designed to help alleviate some of that discomfort though, and it can be spread all over the belly as well as any other dry skin on the body. It’s made with a blend of moisturizing ingredients like cocoa seed butter, mango seed butter, avocado oil, shea butter, beeswax, sweet almond oil, and more.

Sure, this gift isn’t overtly romantic — but pregnancy is a stressful time, and getting her a product that can help her de-stress could help her feel seen. Like an upgraded version of the squeezable stress ball, she can run these magnetic stones between her fingers, mash them, and just mess around with them to help keep her hands occupied so her mind can stay calm. The tins come in pretty shades of white, blue, or light orange. And you might get yourself one while you’re at it — they’re so satisfying to mess with, you’ll be tempted to borrow hers.

If she loves a good manicure or pedicure (or both), gift her with a bottle of Ginger Beauty Lab nail polish. Ginger Beauty Lab is one of the original vegan-friendly nail polish brands, and takes its commitment to anti-animal cruelty seriously. If the ordinary nail polish colors don’t strike her fancy, this brand puts out some colors that are outside the norm, including a shimmering gold color called “born regal” and an eye-catching poppy called “pepper sauce.” At a time when it’s hard to find time for self-care, these nail colors might really brighten her day.

It’s just a scientific fact: both pregnancy and motherhood change your brain in some awesome ways that make you more able to keep your little one safe and healthy, but perhaps less likely to remember where you put your keys. Tile can help with that by keeping track of your keys, wallet, or other important items for you, and making finding them again as simple as tapping a button on your phone. These packs come in a variety of cute shades, including the red and black pattern pictured above and this psychedelic design called the Rambler pack.

If her interest in romance extends far beyond the Valentine’s Day holiday and she enjoys reading romance novels, this subscription box curated by staff at the famous romance bookstore The Ripped Bodice might delight her. You can choose between 6-month, 12-month, or ongoing plans that are billed monthly. Each month, two new romance picks will arrive on your doorstep, along with another small present like a candle or a keychain. If she loves this genre, this present will remind her every month how much you care.

While a good moisturizer is great for offering some relief to an itchy, stretching baby bump, if you want to give her belly a little extra attention, consider giving her the Honest Mama Bump Care Kit for Valentine’s Day. It comes with four products that are created to make her growing bump a little more comfortable for mama. It includes “Rock the Bump Body Butter,” which moisturizes the skin (including stretch marks) for up to 24 hours, a 4.2-oz bottle of “Glow On Body Oil” to soothe the skin and give it a little extra glow, an 8-oz bottle of “Sweet Curves Body Lotion” that can be used all over the body and moisturizes the skin for up to 24 hours, and some “Chill Mom Soothing Jelly” which moisturizes while also offering a cooling sensation.

Side sleeping doesn’t come naturally to everyone, but as you progress in pregnancy, that’s pretty much the only option there is. If mom-to-be is struggling to get a restful sleep at night, then she could benefit from the Boppy Side Sleeper Pregnancy Pillow that offers “back and bump support” while she lays on her side. This is a great option for someone who doesn’t have the bed space for one of the huge body pillows because of its compact design. It has a contoured shape with a stretch panel so it will fit her body as her belly grows, and it has a removable jersey cover that is machine washable.

Whatever kind of pregnancy she’s having, she will enjoy this memoir, which is partly about trials of high-risk pregnancy but also about marriage, motherhood, and finding yourself. Knocked Down was called a “haunting story of survival” by Publisher’s Weekly, but also “gripping” and “laugh out loud funny.” It might be just the kind of book she’s craving at this time in her life.

When it comes to Valentine’s Day, you can’t go wrong with a bouquet of flowers, right? You can go to your local florist to have something pulled together, or if you’d rather keep it hassle-free, order a bouquet from Planting With P. Custom flower arrangements are available in three different sizes and you can request whatever three-color palette you’d like when you order the bouquet, so you’re sure to get an arrangement that’s perfect for her. This small florist ships nationwide, but for the freshest possible flowers, you’ll want to opt for next day shipping.